In 2019, Srija made history as the first transgender woman to legally marry in Tamil Nadu, thanks to a landmark court decision. Her story is beautifully captured in the new documentary, "Amma's Pride," which highlights the extraordinary bond she shares with her mother, Valli. "Srija is a gift," says Valli, who has always stood by her daughter’s side amid societal pressures.
For Srija, who grew up in Thoothukudi, her achievements—education, career, and marriage—are closely tied to her mother’s unconditional love. “I know many trans people lack this support,” reflects Srija, who thanks Valli for her encouragement.
Srija met Arun, her future husband, in 2017 at a temple. As they fell in love, they realized that they desired legal recognition of their relationship, which offers vital protections. In 2014, the Indian Supreme Court had granted rights to transgender individuals, but marriage recognition remained elusive.
Initially, Srija and Arun faced obstacles. Their registration request was denied based on outdated laws defining marriage strictly between a "bride" and a "groom." However, LGBTQ+ activists rallied behind them, leading to significant media attention and ultimately, a favorable court ruling.
Despite the challenges and discrimination that came with their newfound visibility—Arun even losing his job due to transphobia—they remained steadfast in their love. Srija excelled academically, paving the way for a brighter future, with Valli's support shining through as she sold her jewelry to fund Srija's gender reassignment.
“Our story shows support and solidarity, and we hope it changes perceptions,” Srija hopes. The documentary aims to challenge stereotypes, depicting not just struggles but also success and hope.
After premiering at international film festivals, "Amma's Pride" was showcased in Chennai, allowing dialogue on acceptance and support for trans individuals. With plans to reach broader audiences, the filmmakers hope to inspire similar connections in rural settings across India and neighboring countries.
As Srija and Arun work towards starting a family, Valli dreams of being a grandmother, cherishing the love that has transcended societal norms. They embody a message of resilience, love, and the importance of family support for the transgender community in India.
